I have driven
passed Concordia Cemetery in central El Paso, Texas thousands of times in my
life. This historic graveyard lies just off the main freeway
through the city, reminding drivers of mortality if they care to think
such solemn thoughts while speeding to their destinations.
One Saturday my husband Wayne and I decided to attend a "Walk Through History" tour at Concordia Cemetery. Volunteers dressed in 19th century costumes were portraying various historical figures buried there, and we hoped to learn more about early El Paso and its colorful beginnings.
Concordia Cemetery looks very old. The landscaping would be called xeric in modern times, just some spiky century plants and one or two native trees which offer an occasional bit of shade.
The first
“ghost” to speak to us was Octavia Magoffin, an attractive lady dressed in black. She was the wife of Joseph Magoffin, an early
El Paso pioneer. I was quickly taken in
by her story of the difficult early years of marriage during the Civil War, the
life she and Joseph began in El Paso to make their fortune, and her rich family
life that included much entertaining and even a trip to Europe. The house they built is now a Texas
Historical Site near downtown El Paso.
Wayne and I had visited it last year on a Halloween tour (it is
reportedly haunted!).
Other “ghosts”
invited us to share their lives. Lawmen,
dentists, doctors, and ministers told of trying to civilize early El Paso. Desperadoes, gamblers, and ladies of the night
told their stories defiantly, making sure they were not forgotten.
Neither the
fabled “Lady in White” nor the “Lady in Black,” who reportedly walk the trails
of the cemetery, appeared to us that day.
But we could not help but notice the many gravestones of ordinary
people too. There were gravestones with
only a few precious years between birth and death. There were others placed near each other in
order for the souls to spend eternity together.
One had the hopeful words, “Until we meet
again.” Still others were cryptic. Wouldn't you love to hear the story behind this one?
But a melancholy
thought crept into our consciousness as we left the Concordia area to drive
home. Will someone in the next century
be visiting our graves and wondering about the details of our lives? Worse yet, would there be anything
interesting to say about us? Thank
goodness we have a few good years left to add to our legends!